Have you ever struggled with procrastination? Advocating for yourself? Making friends? As they move on from FWPA, tenth graders are leaving behind insight on how to navigate middle school, based on things they wish they knew when they were younger.
Reflecting on her time in middle school, Kaylee Donarico wishes she knew how important it was to give herself more grace and acknowledge that, “It’s okay to not get perfect grades all the time.” She explains, “It’s more important that you understand the concepts and know that you have support when you do struggle.” Your grades don’t define you or your knowledge, do your best and focus on learning, not perfection.
100% of tenth graders surveyed said that they have struggled with procrastination. It’s not just laziness, a fear of failure or stress can be attributed to it. It can feel easier to put off doing work you’re dreading, but in reality it just makes it harder for your future self. Sometimes more stress in the short term makes it easier for yourself in the long term. Instead of avoiding tasks, Melayna Gonzalez recommends, “Doing homework right away.”
Maintaining a stable schedule and taking care of yourself may benefit you more than you think. It’s important to, “Find a balance between school and personal life. It’s not good just to pile on one and abandon the other,” Michael Gasanov emphasizes, “Being a dual sport athlete can be tricky, but finding that in-between can really help you excel in both areas.”
Looking back on her experiences at FWPA, Polina Dudnic regrets that she didn’t always remember, “To treat myself and others with more kindness.” Although it can feel like people are judging everything you do, Tai Bryant explains, “Nobody actually cares about things you’re insecure about.” But at the same time, if you are in an environment where you don’t feel comfortable, Tai adds that you shouldn’t, “Feel obligated to stay with people you don’t enjoy being with.” You deserve to spend your time around people who care about you and treat you with respect.
As tenth graders are moving onto their next chapter, they hope that by leaving behind the wisdom they’ve gained, they can help you gain confidence in yourself, both inside and outside of school.
